f you do not reside in California
but would like our assistance in locating a birth mother
and/or an adoptable infant, we can be of help to you. This
firm specializes in helping couples locate and match with
women seeking to place their infants for adoption. We often
represent adoptive parents but also are called upon from
time to time to represent birth parents. With the availability
of infants being limited in many states, out-of-state families
often retain this office to assist them in finding a suitable
birth mother from whom to adopt.
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September 30, 2002 California became even more adoption friendly
when Governor Gray Davis signed Assembly Bill 746 into law
permitting non-residents to have access to the adoption courts
of the state of California. Under the newly enacted law,
non-residents who enter into an adoption plan with birth
parents residing in California may finalize their adoptions
in California even if the adoptive parents do not own or
rent in California and even if they come into the state solely
to pick up their adoptive child. This change in the law may
also be helpful in cases where the alleged birth father would
have greater rights in a state other than California as California
laws concerning birth fathers tend to favor the adoptive
parents over the birth father especially if he has not been
meaningfully involved and financially supportive of the mother
during her pregnancy.
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residency requirement for birth parents is that the birth parent
must be a resident of the state of California at the time after
the baby is born when she or they either: 1.) Relinquish to
a licensed California adoption agency or 2.) When they sign
a consent to adoption. Adoptive parents who live outside of
California may then petition to finalize their adoption in
California. When the adoption was ultimately finalized in California,
the adoptive parents would not have to re-finalize in
their home state!
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new law requires non-resident adoptive parents to present a
completed and current home study report conducted and approved
by a licensed adoption agency or other authorized resource
in the state in which the petitioners reside (their home state).
If the home studys contents meet the standards required
by the California Department of Social Services which defines
and regulates the contents of acceptable home studies, the
placement would likely be approved. The out of state home study
will then be reviewed and, if appropriate, approved by a local
California agency or a representative office of the California
Department of Social Services.
ursuant
to existing California law, the adoptive parents would be required
to return to California with the child who is the subject of
the adoption petition for finalization of the adoption before
a judge in court approximately 180 days after the placement
of the child into their custody for adoption purposes.
ur office advertises to attract
pregnant women who are thinking of placing children for adoption
to call us. We network with adoption attorneys and health
care professionals throughout the United States who periodically
request our help in locating adoptive parents to match with
birth mothers in their practices. We find birth mothers for
the vast majority of our clients often within three to six
months of the date when they first start actively seeking
birth mothers.
ecause so many of our birth
mothers come to our clients through advertising, we assist
our clients in drafting advertisement copy, in locating newspapers
where a good response is expected and in placing those ads.
We screen calls from birth mothers. We help our clients write
a letter or resume which is mailed to birth mothers who respond
to the advertising and shown to birth mothers who visit my
office seeking adoptive parents. Those letters include an
assortment of photographs which we help you select which
we share with the birth mother to provide her with a sense
of who you are and what you have to offer as parents.
irth mothers who work with
our clients are carefully screened and the information they
provide is, to the extent permissible, verified. They are
required to submit to testing for HIV/AIDS, sexually transmitted
diseases, Hepatitis B, Hepatitis C, drugs and alcohol. They
provide us with authorizations which we use to obtain their
medical records. They complete lengthy questionnaires about
their family history, health history, educational history,
employment history and social history. We promptly share
all of the completed forms with our clients to help then
learn the most about the birth mothers with whom they are
thinking of matching and so that ultimately the adopted child
will be able to be told a lot about his or her roots and
background. As an adoptive parent, I appreciate how important
it is for adoptive couples to know as much about their child's
history as possible and how important it is for the growing
child to be able to have her/his questions about their biological
family answered thoroughly and accurately.
pecial considerations are required
when dealing with clients from other states. Because newspaper
advertising for adoption is forbidden in some states (as
it is in California) we will assist you in locating a birth
mother without violating any of your home state laws. It
is still possible that your birth mother may come from your
home state as many birth mothers come to this office and
its clients by means other than advertising.
dditionally, if we locate a
birth mother in a state where you do not need to be a resident
to finalize your adoption (for example Oregon) then we will
assist you in making arrangements with skilled attorneys
in the birth mother's home state who will finalize your adoption.
If your birth mother gives birth in a state where you cannot
finalize the adoption because you are not a resident of that
state then we will assist you in connecting with an experienced
and well qualified attorney or a licensed agency in your
home state to finalize your adoption. At the same time we
will assist with compliance with all federal laws which apply
when a baby born in one state is to be adopted by a couple
from another state.
y fees for the foregoing services
are charged on an hourly basis. Clients receive monthly bills
reflecting the date services were performed, the time spent
in performing those services a detailed description of the
services provided and the cost. We require a retainer before
starting our work and the monthly charges are subtracted
from the retainer. You will find our payment programs to
be quite reasonable. Retainers may be paid by check or credit
card. Most of our clients are able to match long before the
retainer is exhausted.
e represent clients of all
races, ages, and backgrounds. We would be pleased to assist
you, as we have other couples, in your efforts to adopt.